Our Loch Ness Monster

Some people believe in the Loch Ness monster, most of us don’t. But all of us knows what it is.

To most, it’s a modern myth, others just talk about it. Some might even be scared of it back in 1933.

So why our Loch Ness monster?

In our daily life, we all have a loch ness monster, or at least I do. The loch ness monster are all of our problems, that are buried so deep in our minds that we choose to ignore it, we choose to make it a myth. It doesn’t exist.

5 years ago, I went to an optician in Malaysia who gave free consulting. Checked my eyes, and found out that I have a slight eyesight situation and needed correcting glasses to fix it. I went out his doors thinking- This is just bullshit, he’s just trying to get me to buy a pair of glasses. I chose to ignore it. Some time later, while I was talking to a friend, he told me that correcting glasses ruined his eyesight more than if he hadn’t use them. Instantly, my worries vanished! it became my myth, my Loch Ness monster. Whenever I can’t read something from faraway, whilst my friend can, I just rationalize it. The situation no longer exist.

After work today, I’m heading to an optician, one that I trust, and see whether need be.

I can probably think of a dozen of situations like this on the top of my mind.

So for that I say

It might or might not exist, but you got to face your Loch Ness monster. Don’t run from yourself.

Back at it again

I used to write daily not so long ago, but life got busy, and I stopped something I really enjoyed doing.

Life got busy, I was stressed at work, my personal life got more complicated…

All of these are just mere excuses, and now is the time to face the truth. I just gave up. But it’s not over, I’m getting back on the horse and I’ll write as often as I can, maybe not daily, but consistently.

We’ll see how it goes, stay updated 🙂


Always aim for B+

When your aim is A+, you can end up getting C, D, E or F. You will not be happy

When you aim for C, D, E or F, you’ll probably get what you aimed for, but you just not giving it your best.

When you aim for B+, you always get B+. B+ is the best.

B+ = Be Positive

Family 1st

You’ve most probably heard that a lot, maybe you, yourself, value family 1st.

Family in two words- Unconditional Love

It is affection without limitation, complete acceptance of the other party.

It is loving with no condition

You can truly unconditionally only love your closest family- parents and children. Beside the indifference, the generation gap or the mindset,  It is very hard not to love them as much as we do, which shows how beautiful that bond actually is. One created the other, whom should be eternally grateful for the best gift ever- life. That other, is your blood, it is you, passed to another generation for him/her to live a life you’ve dreamed for him/her, how not to love them?

To my father, mother and brother
You are the one that I look forward to. You are the three person in my life that I want to make the most proud of me. You are Family.

To my Extended family- uncles, aunts and cousins
Though we might not see each other very often, know that you have an important place in my heart and I hope it reciprocates. I look forward to seeing you every time we meet.

To my Friends
Sorry, but family 1st.

*This article excludes cases such as child abuse or similar*